About That Picture

About That Picture

I took this picture today after my daughter rode her new electric scooter for the first time. Isn’t it a sweet picture? It was a…

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The Best of Times, The Worst of Times: Adolescence...In Our Kids and In Ourselves

The Best of Times, The Worst of Times: Adolescence…In Our Kids and In Ourselves

Ah…adolescence. It is the best of times and the worst of times (sometimes all in the same day). It is a frenzied time of creativity,…

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Comparative Love and Things I Am Trying Not to Say to My Kids

Comparative Love and Things I Am Trying Not to Say to My Kids

At the risk of sounding creepy I want to let you know that I watch people pretty closely. I know that I have a lot…

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You Won't Remember

You Won’t Remember

You won’t remember. You won’t remember how after three other births I still had two false labor alarms with you, my fourth, because I was…

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Shoving Things in Drawers

Shoving Things in Drawers

There is something that gets my mother blood boiling in seconds. Clothes shoved in drawers. Even as I write it I realize that it is…

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For What It's Worth: Parenting, Empathy, and Redirecting

For What It’s Worth: Parenting, Empathy, and Redirecting

Therapy is way more than a toolbox of intervention. Information alone cannot replace professional help. However, information can be very powerful. So, for what it’s…

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On the Benjamin Clark Show: Follow Up Thoughts on That Elf Post

On the Benjamin Clark Show: Follow Up Thoughts on That Elf Post

I wrote a post two years ago called “Why I Let My Children Play With Elves“. There is no way I could have anticipated the…

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Many Mothers

Many Mothers

This is the manuscript from sharing with the ladies at my church at our annual ladies luncheon. Wow…what a special time. I was able to…

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And The Pendulum Swings Wide...Thoughts on Narcissism

And The Pendulum Swings Wide…Thoughts on Narcissism

I carry you around the house all morning. I promise, Hillary, it seems I would sew you to my hip if I could. I’m getting…

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Looking For A Sign

Looking For A Sign

The first in a short series of posts on thanksgiving. Every adult likely has a story about the time they got in trouble the WORST. …

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Keep Going Don't Stop

Keep Going Don’t Stop

This weekend I hit a wall of discouragement and was blinded by tears of exhaustion.  The slightest effort felt like moving through molasses. I won’t…

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Birthday Party Apologetics

Birthday Party Apologetics

The last couple of weekends we have had birthday parties on our family agenda and I am reminded once again why I love these things….

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Why I Cry When I Bring Home Baby

Why I Cry When I Bring Home Baby

I have a confession.  Some of you I know in “real life” know this fact about me already. I cry when I leave the hospital…

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So you are starting middle school...

So you are starting middle school…

I wrote the following letter for a very specific, special girl who is a friend of mine as she starts middle school.  I started thinking…

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Just Like This

Just Like This

My alarm goes off.  I don’t have extra time to hit snooze.  I put an abrupt end to the melody sweetly trying without success to…

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